Someone suddenly leaves you and goes away without saying or listening anything, it hurts a lot but you can not do anything because the person in front has gone away from you and has also closed all the ways of contact.
This is called ghosting, or simply running away. It does not matter to the one who runs away from it, but the one who is alone and left behind has to suffer mentally and emotionally.
Why do people run away like this, today we will discuss this topic.
There can be many reasons behind this behavior.
Many times the other person is not that serious in the relationship the way we take deeply, or to say that the relationship we are considering is a not a relationship for the other person, they are just to spend some good time with you and considering this like a casual relationship.
Here it is very important to understand what is the real reason behind your breakup or ghosting with you.
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Often such an action is taken only when one of the two people either does not want to come into the relationship or after coming, they realizes that this relationship is not right for them.
Let us understand this thing in simple way, suppose you are studying in college and you have an emotional relationship with someone there, some days went very well, then one day your partner suddenly stopped replaying to your calls or messages,now you are wondering why this must have happened, you haven’t done anything wrong with them.
Whereas a relationship is such in which you are emotionally attached with someone who is already married, they can be male or female, everything was perfect for a few days or years, then suddenly the relations started getting bitter and your partner started ignoring you slowly. After a time while slowly moving away from you, he stopped all the ways of contact, now if you see him anywhere on the way, he does not even recognize you.
In both these examples, one thing must have been clear to you that there was a slow breakup in the relationship even though the method was different.
One thing to understand here is that a relation that was formed in college was not as deep as that of extra marital affair, maybe there is a lot of difference between age and experience, but breakup happened in both, let's try to understand the reason.
There was a novelty in the college affair, a good partner with study, a good time to hang out with, for a few days everything was fine or for a few years, then as soon as the tension of the career started, everything else started to be left behind, then all the attention turned towards the career in such a situation, who wants to roam, let's breakup, lets make the career first and voila breakup done. Lightly, casually because one is setting priorities in life.
In the case of extra-marital affair, when some new contacts are formed after marriage and a person of your choice is also involved in them, then it is common to have attraction, this attraction goes ahead and turns into an affair, a few years, months turn out to be good then society and the tension of family starts and the married partner starts looking for ways to breakup.
In simple words, ghosting is done only when one of the partners does not want to be in the relationship, the reason may be different, the ways may also be different, but the truth is that when this happens, the reason behind it is to get rid of the current relationship.
What to do in case of ghosting-
Whenever there is a breakup, it is obvious that one of the partners is left alone and they starts looking for answers to their questions which is very normal, you are suddenly left alone without any reason or closure,you are upset and want to find answers to your questions and for this you again send messages to your partner, but from there all the roads have already been closed, you are not able to reach them.
In this condition, you go into depression, both your personal and professional life gets spoiled because you are not able to pay attention to your work due to all this.
This is a very normal thing to happen after a breakup and most of us do all this and when this method does not work then we go into tension and depression, we feel that we lowered our self respect for this person,lost health and peace of mind too,here one thing is to be understood very carefully that when your partner had to be in a relationship with you, then why would they leave you, or if they wanted to answer your questions then why would they run away hiding their face.
Look, your partner has left you without saying anything, knowing that you will be confused, knowing that you will be in trouble, the truth is that your partner knows everything, yet they have done,it is clear that they are not in this relationship anymore.
They don't want to be with you nor do they want to give you any explanation, whatever they had to do with you is over now, they don't care what you will do or are doing in your life and the sooner you understand this truth the sooner you will be able to come out of this breakup.
It is very important to understand one thing that after making millions of efforts, but those who had to go have gone and now you should also accept this truth and move forward in life, thanking the God, he mad you see the reality of your cowardly partner.
Ghosting means running away by hiding your face, it is a selfish act in which a partner is neither answering nor recognizing you after they are done with you, because they are weak, they does not dare to face you. To answer the questions, your first thing is to love yourself and do the same, don't go after them, move forward you will find a suitable partner when the right time will come.
Live life with and for those who are there for you and are responsible for you, Move On is just the way.
All the best for new life.
